50 Ways to Make your Wife Happy

                                      
Do you remember the last time you did something to make your wife feel special? When you married the woman of your dreams, you not only gained a friend and a lover for life, but a confidante, a helpmate and a caregiver. She is someone you know will steady you when you are faltering and will go all out to cheer you up, when you are feeling low. She is the mother of your kids.
So, do something special to make your wife feel glad that she married you. Whether you are a brand new husband eager to make her the happiest bride, or a long-wedded spouse wishing to rediscover the fun-loving girl you married, here are some infallible ways to make your wife happy. 

1. Write a romantic letter. Love letters written by hand never go out of fashion. Put your most romantic thoughts on paper, preferably perfumed, and

What Makes Marriages Last (Or Not)

I’ve been getting into it recently with some readers who have a slightly different take on when people should get engaged. Hey, different strokes for different folks.
One reader on my Facebook page wrote: “When a man’s in love he wants to propose as soon as he can.”
Needless to say, I disagree with that. Wait. It’s not that I disagree with that. There are MANY men who propose as soon as they can when they’re in love. But are they making the

5 Ways to Make a Woman Feel Really Loved.

A response to Damien Bohler’s beautiful article, 5 Ways to Make a Man Feel Really Loved.

I saw a funny thing today on Facebook which said, “Men: If you ever wanna know what a woman’s mind feels like, imagine a browser with 2,857 tabs open. All. The. Time.” And while that crazy tendency to think, imagine, create, obsess, worry over a thousand things all at the same time can be true at many times of any given day in my own life, women are, I believe, actually quite simple to please at heart.
Ultimately, like Damien points out in the introduction to his own post, each of us are just another human being “wanting to know that I am safe, that I am appreciated and

12 Signs That You’re in a Highly Cherished Relationship

                        

How can you tell that you are in a highly cherished relationship? Usually, the signs are pretty obvious. Read the 12 pointers below that will confirm if you are on the right track. If you cannot tick off all these, then there might be some repair-work to be done!

What do we mean by cherished?

“Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.” – Oscar Wilde
Most marriage or partnership ceremonies mention the word ‘cherish.’ The best definition of the word ‘cherished’ is ‘nurtured.’ Think of a plant which needs water, sunshine, and a bit of tender loving care. Just do that today and every day. The plant or relationship will grow and flourish as

20 Little Ways To Make Your Marriage Even Stronger

                                 

You want to be with the love of your life forever, and he with you, so always make your marriage a top priority (as in every day!). Here are some easy and fun ways to keep improving an already awesome partnership. Even if you're not married yet, you can start practicing these tips to enjoy your relationship even more throughout the wedding-planning process.

Grooms and husbands, hold onto this list as well — these rules apply to you, too!
1. Eat healthfully.
A 2012 British study from the University of Warwick found that people who consume more fruits and vegetables experience higher levels of mental well-being. Include these foods in your diet and you'll have increased energy, sleep better and exhibit a more positive outlook in general. You have to take great care of yourself to be the best "you" in this marriage.
2. Make time for exercise.
It's important to work out — no, not to be a size 0 so your hubby finds you attractive, but so that you feel your best. Newlyweds who exercise have more self-confidence while clothed or naked, enjoy mood-boosting hormones and are less likely to

The Top 6 Mistakes Women Make That *Gulp* Lead To Divorce

        

                  

Recognize, don't criticize!

After spending years working with couples and individuals who have been through a breakup or divorce, it seems that there are problems that keep coming up over and over again. Wouldn't it be nice to know where to really concentrate our efforts so we can give our marriages the best chance at survival?
Behold, the six marriage mistakes that can easily lead to divorce:
1. You talk to friends about what you think your husband did to you.
Research suggests that friends are often more upset when they think their bestie is being mistreated than when they're experiencing the same mistreatment themselves. Besides, most of us don't really

The Top 10 Ways For A Boy To Win A Girl's Heart

For the typical college guy, girls can seem like human versions of a Rubix cube -- a puzzle that, at times, may feel unsolvable, but understanding how to keep a girl happy is easier than ever thanks to this simple survival guide. There are 10 things you can do that will make a girl smile no matter what. We absolutely love it when you…
1. Smell good.

No girl wants to date a guy smelling like last night’s party, am I right? Studies have shown that women ranked a man’s scent as the most important feature for

9 things you should never tell your spouse

Long-time, happily married couples sometimes need to watch what they say and how they say it !

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At the same time they also need to watch how they respond to what their significant other has to say.

Just because you're extremely comfortable with someone doesn't mean you never have to watch your mouth.
"Communication is tricky. We all hear words differently (and filtered through our experiences, which are certainly different from our partner's) and we all want to be communicated with in a style we understand," Life coach Jean Grossman said.
"I also believe that 'the tune makes the music.' If what we are saying is said in a

11 Things Your Wife Won’t Tell You...great facts you must know !

 Hi people...I got this article from a blogger friend and it actually worth reading....here it goes....
"We walked out of our wedding reception holding hands as the crowd was cheering for us. Our  car was decorated with balloons and streamers – so much that we could barely get inside. The back window said “JUST MARRIED” and I felt like I was floating in the car with my big wedding dress taking up 90% of the seat. My new husband got into the car, looked at me and said, “WE DID IT!…. Now let’s get out of here!”

It was just the two of us. Me and him. A MARRIED couple. It was so surreal.
A few days past and we were flipping through our guest book from our reception. It was full of great advice on how to have a successful and happy marriage. One note said, “Don’t fight. And if you’re going to fight – fight naked.” Another note said, “Forgive and forget.” A few said, “Never forget how you feel TODAY.” And the last one said, “Keep no

5 Ways Growing Up in a Broken Home Screws Your Love Life

I've talked before about the oddball habits one picks up coming from a broken home and how they can spank life's ass pretty hard (not in the fun way). What a lot of people don't realize is that these aren't just annoying quirks that we learn to navigate around. They are relationship time bombs, and when they go off, they explode-fuck everyone who dares to be in our personal sphere at that moment. It's hard for a "normal" person to understand that when you come from this sort of environment ...

#5. Confrontation Is a Battle

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You Either Use What You've Learned ...
In most of the screwed-up relationships I've seen and been a part of, the pivotal person in the circle jerk tends to be an extremely dominating, hyper aggressive figure. For me, that was my dad. People who have lived through it can tell you that any confrontation, no matter how small, becomes an all-out war. Any objection on your part is taken as a sign of rebellion by the ... we'll call them "douchebags." The douchebag explodes over every little thing, and the people who don't want to go through their douchestorms tend to give in to their every whim.
Eventually, you learn that this is a normal means of leading a family. The domination and