Love is a pure and sacred feeling. It connects people with unbreakable threads. Being able to love someone and to be loved is a gift of god. Love being a symbol of purity can exist between any two people, be it a mother and a child, two friends or even a boy and
a girl. It is a feeling which is voluntary therefore it cannot be imposed upon anyone. It happens on its own. Therefore when you love someone all you have to do is say it with an open heart and don’t fear the response. But what happens in today’s society is that boys are seen to take an initiative most of the time. And this often happens in the case of love that is when it comes to proposal. If you think hard over it doesn’t it seem to be a little unfair? Yes, it does because if you are in love with a guy you should express your feelings just at that moment rather than waiting for him to approach you. In spite of it girls usually keep mum and sit and wait for the other person to make the move. But for how long can you wait for him to pop the question. It is high time you take things in your hand and do it the right way. So here we come up with 10 reasons which tell us that why girls should be the first one to propose ?
10. VIEWS OVER EQUALITY
Equality is a relevant issue in today’s world. Girls and guys are
seen to be equal. Proposing a boy will let you know what he really feels
about the equality issue by his reaction. According to his reaction the
girl is free to decide their future. If he responds positively, the
girl can think of some possibilities of being together in the future and
if he question it then the girl are free to leave him to find someone
who is not a sexist.9. CHANGE THE MINDSET OF THE OPPOSITE SEX
8. GIRLS ARE BETTER AT HANDLING IT
Girls are at a better mindset to propose as they are more concerned
about the future. Being the mature ones they are sensible at handling a
flow of emotions. They know how to make things go the right way. In case
of rejection too girls know how to react. Whereas boys are not able to
react to such situations and end up hurting themselves or the girl. They
even become mentally unstable like going under depression spoiling
their further future in academics too.7. HESITATION FROM BOTH THE SIDE
Girls are of the view that it is always the guys who propose so why
should I? Now if the girls themselves think in such narrow minded terms
then who else can change this thinking. Often a boy does not propose as a
matter of being shy and fearing rejection. It is not always the girls
who feel shy boys feel the same way too. Till how long can you keep
sitting and waiting in spite of knowing your feelings for him are
genuine. If even the girl hesitates in taking an initiative it comes to
the end of a mere possibility of a future together. Why lose the chance
of being with someone you like for the sake of ego clashes.6. BE THE ONE TO CHOOSE
Mostly girls are seen to be surrounded by a group of boys flattering
them and wanting to be friends with them. Therefore rather than being
compelled to choose one out of them why not follow your heart and
propose somebody you like. This will lead to a much happier end than
expected. It is better to propose someone whom you want to be with
rather than someone who wants to be with you. So take a chance and if
you love someone just tell him.5. STARTING A NEW TREND
The trend till now prevails to be such that guys propose the girls,
if it is a yes then well and good or let it go. So why not go out of the
league and start a new trend of approaching the guys yourselves. In
fact leave the narrow minded people behind and make a change. Do not
follow the crowd and start a way of your own which others follow too.
This will change the thinking of the society.4. MAKING THE GUYS FEEL SPECIAL
Girls getting flattered by the guys is a common sight but the other
way around is not a rare one. If you love someone make him feel special
by telling him how you feel about him. Don’t think about what people may
think just care for the person you love. When the guys propose you with
all their love don’t you feel on top of the world then why not give
them a chance to feel the same way too. It will come up as a matter of
surprise for him and he will love it. Hence girls should pour their
hearts out too to their lovers. This will just make your partner love
you all the more. Here comes the turn of the boys of getting flattered.3. FEMINIST POINT OF VIEW
Feminism asserts equality upon men and women. It teaches us to look
at men and women as the equal gender. In the modern world all the
females are in support of feminism in almost all the fields then why is
love being made an exception to it? In fact being the more soft heart
ones this is your stream where you can make a move. You are a strong
girl you make good decisions in case of education and career then why
not your private life too. You are a free thinking, open minded woman
then behave like one. If you seek feminism in every point then be fair
and just.2.GRAB THE OPPORTUNITY
Just tickle your brain and think for once that when the girls in the
21st century are as vocal as guys about their feeling then why can’t
they do the same with love too. Girls of today are given such a lot of
freedom. Think of how many women just 50 years ago would have loved the
opportunity to feel so liberated? All you have been wanting is
liberalization or freedom to do whatever you want, now when it is there
in your hands what are you waiting for. But what happens is that girls
take a step back and are dependent upon the guys to come up to them.
When you are given freedom you take advantage of it in every field.
Proposing is just about walking up to that person and saying all that
you feel. Being given an opportunity is a rare thing then why not grab
it and spill the beans.1. POSITIVE RESPONSE
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